LOVE and MARRIAGE

When we love each other , it means we are willing to do anything for my lover , we never think about ourselves but him or her
When we are falling in love , we just see all things beautiful from the other half of ours
When the love finished with a marriage, we always have expectations of our love before but we start to see something wrong from each other and we still try to give our partner a forgiveness at the beginning of the marriage ... But time goes and there are several left- sided problems happened so badly that we never could imagine before getting married . Arguments and disagreements occur more frequently and then Cold War begins to appear
In this stage and this setting , we just think about our EGO ... No talks no smiles  ...There is no conception of compassion ; we never feel compassion for our partner and forgiveness seems to be a rare and costly action given to both sides
In the long run , separate or Divorce surely must be the best solution for both sides
We always think that a marriage with no love will lead to collapse absolutely
That's why the rates of Separate or Divorce nowadays are increasing with time
In order to protect and prevent from any marital problems we should think more and more of our partner instead of expecting the beautiful, sweet things done by our half