Q: Whenever my boyfriend finishes first in bed he immediately relaxes and acts like both of us are done. How can I show him (without killing his mood) that after he climaxes, I’ve still got a way to go?
A: The problem here is that your mood is being killed, not his. That said, you’ll have much better luck getting what you need if you act before he climaxes – as you may have noticed, most guys are pretty useless afterwards. If you think that he’s approaching the point of no return before you’re done, tell him you want to switch positions: it’s what guys often do to avoid finishing too early. Then be vocal about what you want – guys appreciate guidance when it comes to taking care of you in a sexy way. Once he is hitting the right places, say things like “Don’t stop!” After a while, getting you off first will be second nature to him.
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